A lot of people have claimed to be happy in relationships that are one sided, even if their bitter tears makes the relationship poetic!
How can you stay or cling to a person that is always hurting you, or keeping you as a spare and still claim such a one makes you happy or that they love you? Love is tender and kind! Never deceive yourself that with patience and prayers, the person will change, that is not the best solution. It is you that needs to change!
It is possible to love the wrong person, which most of us often do! It could be the person’s looks, money, personality, sexual prowess, or when we see them making another happy, we will want to be such a one! Envy! This has often resulted into unwilling marriage alliances. Ask the experience of those who got there by such means!